i usually read blogs and so on when i'm at work~
so as i was mia-ed for like a week or more due to my workload before my trip and of cuz the actual trip itself...
i totally did not see one of my friend's ( - ) blog on the "argument" we have

that's the reason why i dun blog when i'm angry
i tend to think of the consequences when i cooled down and think what will my friend think if he/she sees whatever i have written.
so yea. now i'm at work and doing my usual "updating" i finally saw the blog dated on 4 june 09.

thing was..
[6/5/2009 10:06:44 AM] - says: meeting tonight?
[6/5/2009 10:09:07 AM] Crystal says: i brought my belts le <<<<<<
[6/5/2009 10:09:22 AM] Crystal says: u ask the gers ba <<<<<< the FIRST thing i said was to ask the gers, i do not say i dun give a damn ( which you have thought, the i dun give a damn is the PLACE to meet, not about meeting you guys ). which is RUDE if used on the first line
[6/5/2009 10:09:42 AM] - says: meet where
[6/5/2009 10:11:28 AM] Crystal says: anything
[6/5/2009 10:11:48 AM] - says: bishan ok? <<<<< after that ( - ) suggested a place, which i replied i dun give a damn ( reason being, yst i already went to the place i WANTED to go to run my errands, so anywhere is fine with me )
[6/5/2009 10:11:49 AM] Crystal says: i brought my belts le
[6/5/2009 10:11:51 AM] Crystal says: i dun give a damn
[6/5/2009 10:11:56 AM] Crystal says: bishan do what huh <<<<< since bishan is freaking SMALL, and NOTHING to eat, i asked ( - ) do what there.
[6/5/2009 10:12:12 AM] - says:
[10:16:21 AM] Crystal: i brought my belts le
i dun give a damn
<<< then don't ask what we doing in bishan <<<<< but somehow i got pissed over this line and said that, i dun give a damn as to we are meeting or not, cuz the way ( - ) ask is so freaking rude.
[6/5/2009 10:12:37 AM] Crystal says: i dun give a damn ( as to we are meeting or not)
[6/5/2009 10:12:51 AM] Crystal says: but i do give a damn IF u are asking me go bishan for nothing
[6/5/2009 10:12:59 AM] Crystal says: time = money
[6/5/2009 10:13:04 AM] - says: problem with you is once you get your motive done, you don't care about everything else
[6/5/2009 10:13:11 AM] Crystal says: y are u so rude anyway
[6/5/2009 10:13:17 AM] Crystal says: true
[6/5/2009 10:13:17 AM] - says: i don't wish to continue this conversation
[6/5/2009 10:13:20 AM] - says: period
[6/5/2009 10:13:23 AM] Crystal says: k
[6/5/2009 1:00:37 PM] Crystal says: This message has been removed
[6/5/2009 1:00:47 PM] Crystal says: i dun have h1n1 <<<< ( - ) wrote something on the personal message, something strong, like why the fuk i wan to go when there's h1n1 everywhere~, so i replied ( - ) saying that i do not have h1n1.

i intend to just let the issue slide.
i meant, there's NO point harping on a argument.
but i could not do it after i read the blog

despite my BEST effort i could not ignore it.
despite it's a 11 days issue and AFTER that, on the actual day i still met up with my friends ( - )
i have totally NO idea this was being blogged.

anyway here's the blog

I totally hate it when someone uses "I don't give a damn" these 5 words on me.
If you're my parents, if you don't give a damn, why do you give birth to me?
If you're a friend, and you don't give a damn, why are you even my friend?
If you're partner, and you don't give a damn, then why the fuck are we together?

I'm pretty thankful that my other half doesn't use this one me.
As for my parents, the last time my mum used it on me was just before this Bangkok trip.
She said, "Wait you contract H1N1 and come back I don't care horz!" Still, she didn't use "I don't give a damn" on me.
I'm pretty sure she would give a damn if I really bring that flu back. Lol.
I know the amount of stress that I'm putting on my parents because of this trip.
They have to worry whether I'll be safe there and if I'll contract that flu. I'm sorry mummy and daddy...
But if some people cannot appreciate, I also CAN'T HELP IT.
Despite I'd love to go on a holiday, but during this moment, given me, I won't go de lorz.

Don't use the 5 words on me when I put in effort to do research or organize something.
Not everyone is so lucky can sit there and do nothing and WAIT FOR ANSWERS TO DROP FROM THE SKY or an organized meeting planned beforehand, you just go there sit down and EAT.
I'm truly hurt by the things that some people would do to me. If you can't respect me, the least you could do is to respect yourself.

I can't wait to see my baby tonight. He's the only person in the whole wide world who doesn't bully me.

P/s: Desty, thanks for being there!
P/p/s: For people with a lousy command of English, the word 'period', may not always mean menses. From the dictionary, it states:
a full pause, as is made at the end of a complete sentence; full stop
I MEANT THIS.

i caught ( - )
and even type out one whole chunk of thing.
i like frontal confrontation, especially when things are being posted online and that the argument has being 'expanded' to include friends outside the usual group
i'm currently waiting for a reply ( i shall keep my comments to myself)

so this is the conversation i have with my friend ( - )

[4:00:46 PM] Crystal says: first i wanted to say i'm sorry ( to use, i dun give a damn )
i'll explain later~

but another question i wanted to ask is..
did i ask u what is period?
cuz in your blog, you have said
P/p/s: For people with a lousy command of English, the word 'period', may not always mean menses.
From the dictionary, it states:
a full pause, as is made at the end of a complete sentence; full stop

so i'm wondering if did i ask you about the meaning of "period" ?
[4:02:05 PM] ( - ) says: not YOU lahz
[4:02:26 PM] Crystal says: oh.
[4:02:45 PM] ( - ) says: ( STAR)
[4:03:00 PM] ( - ) says: she said, "you period mahz, plus crystal de temper"
[4:03:04 PM] ( - ) says: kaoz
[4:04:46 PM] Crystal says: did u actually say that (STAR) have a bad command of english?
[4:06:17 PM] ( - ) says: nope
[4:06:23 PM] ( - ) says: i didn't state that
[4:06:38 PM] Sheryl says: but it's just that i wanna clear it up
[4:06:45 PM] Sheryl says: the fact that i'm not perioding and all

[4:09:11 PM] Crystal says: okie another question is about the meeting.
what actually prompted you to write this line?

Don't use the 5 words on me when I put in effort to do research or organize something.

i did not omit the fact that you are actually doing research for the bangkok trip, in fact i'm thankful and i have said so to you..
the only reason why i could not be more endu in all the messages that you have sent me was that chloe was on leave and i have tons of work to clear before the trip

so by saying that line, are you upset by the fact that i left you to do all the researching on bangkok or are you referring to the "meeting" of which you 'organized' ?
[4:13:38 PM] Crystal says: i do need to clear this up.

so pardon me for dragging 11 days ago argument now.
i'm just puzzled by the sentences and wanted a explanation

i understand that being friends and all, and of cuz my temper, disagreements bound to happen
and since you devoted one whole post on the "i dun give a damn" , of which i have said sorry ( i do not know that you felt so strongly about this line and yes it's my fault for even typing it, i should have said, i dun care ) ---- later i will explain why i even write that...

the original meaning was actually, i dun give a damn where we meet, but after you quoting me, it became, i dun give a damn if we are meeting or not...

[6/5/2009 10:06:44 AM] - says: meeting tonight?
[6/5/2009 10:09:07 AM] Crystal says: i brought my belts le <<<<<<
[6/5/2009 10:09:22 AM] Crystal says: u ask the gers ba <<<<<< the FIRST thing i said was to ask the gers, i do not say i dun give a damn ( which YOU have thought, the i dun give a damn is the PLACE to meet, not about meeting you guys ). which is RUDE if used on the first line
[6/5/2009 10:09:42 AM] - says: meet where
[6/5/2009 10:11:28 AM] Crystal says: anything
[6/5/2009 10:11:48 AM] - says: bishan ok? <<<<< after that ( - ) suggested a place, which i replied i dun give a damn ( reason being, yst i already went to the place i WANTED to go to run my errands, so anywhere is fine with me )
[6/5/2009 10:11:49 AM] Crystal says: i brought my belts le
[6/5/2009 10:11:51 AM] Crystal says: i dun give a damn
[6/5/2009 10:11:56 AM] Crystal says: bishan do what huh <<<<< since bishan is freaking SMALL, and NOTHING to eat, i asked ( - ) do what there.
[6/5/2009 10:12:12 AM] - says:
[10:16:21 AM] Crystal: i brought my belts le
i dun give a damn
<<< then don't ask what we doing in bishan <<<<< but somehow i got pissed over this line and said that, i dun give a damn as to we are meeting or not, cuz the way ( - ) ask is so freaking rude.
[6/5/2009 10:12:37 AM] Crystal says: i dun give a damn ( as to we are meeting or not)
[6/5/2009 10:12:51 AM] Crystal says: but i do give a damn IF u are asking me go bishan for nothing
[6/5/2009 10:12:59 AM] Crystal says: time = money
[6/5/2009 10:13:04 AM] - says: problem with you is once you get your motive done, you don't care about everything else
[6/5/2009 10:13:11 AM] Crystal says: y are u so rude anyway
[6/5/2009 10:13:17 AM] Crystal says: true
[6/5/2009 10:13:17 AM] - says: i don't wish to continue this conversation
[6/5/2009 10:13:20 AM] - says: period
[6/5/2009 10:13:23 AM] Crystal says: k
[6/5/2009 1:00:37 PM] Crystal says: This message has been removed
[6/5/2009 1:00:47 PM] Crystal says: i dun have h1n1 <<<< ( - ) wrote something on the personal message, something strong, like why the fuk i wan to go when there's h1n1 everywhere~, so i replied ( - ) saying that i do not have h1n1.
[4:19:26 PM] ( -) says: [4:18:16 PM] Crystal: the original meaning was actually, i dun give a damn where we meet, but after you quoting me, it became, i dun give a damn if we are meeting or not...

<<< I meant this
[4:20:44 PM] ( -) says: you freaking made me read like siao for like 5 minutes
[4:20:44 PM] ( -) says: cb
[4:22:28 PM] Crystal says: that was my explanation.
so u are not upset about the amt of research u have done for bangkok??

cuz what you write is "Don't use the 5 words on me when I put in effort to do research or organize something. "
i thought it's bangkok.
and the meeting was very last min, it was not "organized" right?
[4:22:38 PM] Crystal says: i was shocked when i saw this
[4:23:09 PM] ( -) says: [4:27:07 PM] Crystal: so u are not upset about the amt of research u have done for bangkok??

<<< NOPE
[4:23:15 PM] ( -) says: DUH
[4:24:30 PM] Crystal says: i did not know, first u are so strongly aginst the i dun give a damn, when i dun care seems the same

i was more concered about the bangkok then the "dinner"
i seriously did not see what's cause u to devote one whole blog post to discuss this and even ask ppl that is not within our group to comment :D
[4:27:46 PM] Crystal says: if i pissed u off with the line "i dun give the damn" i apologied.
but please understand the inital meaning was " i dun give a damn where we meet", instead of " i dun give a damn if we meet or not"

but honestly, i was pissed after you quoted me this..
[6/5/2009 10:12:12 AM] - says:
[10:16:21 AM] Crystal: i brought my belts le
i dun give a damn
<<< then don't ask what we doing in bishan

as i explain here, i got pissed over this line and said that, i dun give a damn as to we are meeting or not, cuz the way you quoted is quite rude, like shouting at me and accusing me..


i'm just gonna post this online and be done with it.